That is the question.
All the recent hype about the Times Magazine cover got me thinking more and more about breastfeeding. For those that haven't seen it, its a picture of a young mom breastfeeding her toddler (probably 4ish). The toddler is actually standing on a stool to reach her boobie.
My reaction was, SERIOUSLY? That kid should be feeding himself with a fork and spoon. I have absolutely nothing against breastfeeding. It is completely natural. However, it is not natural to continue to feed long after the child no longer needs your nutrition.
Then I thought about it a little more. Maybe this mom is just doing what she feels is best for her child??? Maybe this works for them? Who am I to judge. Well secretly, I do judge, I think it's uncalled for, but hey, to each their own. I wouldn't do it and I sure as hell wouldn't pose for a picture if I did.
I'm almost certain that I was judged when I stopped feeding Lilly after a few weeks. I can about guarantee that I will stop after a few weeks of this one. Yes, I probably could have tried harder, but I didn't want to. Lilly was tiny, I wasn't producing and I needed that reassurance that she was getting what she needed to grow. Moving her over to formula was one of the best decisions that we ever made. All of our lives were much happier.
Stupid society and their judgements. And, stupid ass Times Magazine for using such a personal topic to make sales. They should be ashamed.
In the end, I'm comfortable with the way I've raised Lilly and I'm sure I'll be comfortable with however feeding works out with the next one. I guess I just wish people would keep their mouths shut for a change. New moms have enough to deal with. It's just too personal for others to be putting in their unwanted 2 cents.
Or, if you're like me, start a blog and bitch about it and then tell everyone that their opinion doesn't matter and that's it your blog. Shut up if you disagree.
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